Your Hands and What You Do With Them

There’s a famous question everyone has asked themselves at least one time in their lives and that is, “Why do bad things happen to such good people?” It brings up a very valid point. Pain, illness, abuse, brokenness, betrayal, sorrow, injuries, disappointment, and heartache happen to people on a day to day basis and many times they do not seem to have any purpose whatsoever. Why is a very good question.

I believe pain is inevitable. Jesus said that, “You will have suffering in this world.” John 16:33

Not might, but will. It will happen.

The main idea is: when something unfortunate happens in this world, you never get a definite answer as to why. There’s more happening than our human eyes can comprehend. Someday, We’ll see things in high definition, but as of right now.. We’re stuck with cruddy standard television. Understanding why there is tragedy in this world isn’t about what is here and now, it’s about the peripheral details that are obscured from our view. A great analogy of this is in one of my favorite books, The Five People You Meet in Heaven. It simply speaks about how the smallest of things and people have the largest impact on our lives, but that’s an entire blog post in itself I’m sure will occur in the future.

These unfortunate situations to me act like a conduit, or a means of transition or transportation: an arrow. These arrows lead us in the right direction, towards conclusions that I believe satisfy what our heart truly needs and desires. We only have to let it.

To me, many unfortunate situations come to be out of another person’s bad choices. Now I don’t think someone falling and spraining a knee *cough cough* is out of choice, but simply choosing to do good or bad. A person can either choose to do good, or choose to do bad, and those outcomes can have an effect on others. We can choose:

  • To Do Good
  • To Do Bad
  • To Do Nothing

The last two are what causes the pain and suffering.. Confused?

Here’s an example: People ask God why he doesn’t fix the suffering like famine , but to me I know that the world produces enough food to feed everyone, but it is own irresponsibility and selfishness caused by our hands prevents us from eradicating all world hunger. Completely out of God’s will. This same example could be used in a personal sense, heartbreak, sorrow, disappointment, etc. are human feelings in which we have complete control over. It is a conscious decision and we need to learn that whatever is causing such pain, needs to go.

Ultimately, what I’ve seen is that God uses that pain to draw us closer to him; to sharpen our character, to influence others for him. He can draw something good from our pain in a plethora of ways, only if we trust and follow him; and that’s something I find worth it In the End.

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From Lemons to Lemonade: Tackling ‘Impossible’ Circumstances

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Every person falls, and we hopelessly end up in seemingly difficult situations in which we regret and find impossible to escape from, and in these situations, we find that they mold us into who we are. Yet we shouldn’t never regret those predicaments. We also should not use that time in which we are given unwisely. This main idea is derived from one of my favorite quotes from J.R.R. Tolkien and it states,

We all live to see such times caused by others, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.

This quote means many things to me, and it simply means that when we are in difficult situations, decide to take that time and do good. As human beings, we tend to notice negative things more often. They seem to flood our lives, and we tend to begin to ask ourselves when will it ever let up, but the truth is it will never let up while you continue to dwell on it.

The truth is, none of us are ‘immune’ or incapable of being confronted with bad predicaments. However, we do have the opportunity to learn and deal with it properly. Since we are incapable of avoiding these circumstances, it is imperative that we learn how to turn them into positive situations.

Use simple strategies, like never losing control. Maintain control over the situation by over thinking it. Many people tend to not analyze every option and in turn end up with unpredictable outcomes, maintain control by over thinking. Over thinking is not a bad thing.

Learn from the situations.Bad situations always have causes as to why they happened. Most also tend to have ways in which they could’ve been avoided. This information is valuable information to ensure not to do it again.

Maintain a positive attitude.. A positive attitude prevents panic and anxiety when confronted with the problem. Good outlooks focus time and energy into planning and managing to overcome the issue.

Laissez Faire that jazz! During the times in life when bad situations happen, they’re truly out of our control, and there’s nothing you can do to reverse the damage caused. You must remain calm at let things take their course. Do not become depressed and do not give up.

Turn your attention to other things. This one is most important, as external happiness is directly controlled by internal happiness. All of us have been given a period if time in which to live, and in that span of time God has given to us, make it count. Don’t spend glorified amounts of time on the Internet, or on the Xbox, or staring blindly at the television screen. Time is a precious commodity and drifting through life is a waste. There are purposes and directions we need to take, we have been called unto this planet to help others who have also been called. We are to help other people. We are to care about other God and your peers more than you care about yourself. Love and do not expect love in return. Do admirable things and don’t expect a reward. Invest in missions. Do charitable work. Thank someone for what they’ve done. We are to love one another and lift one another up regardless of past circumstances. If done correctly, it will be returned, it will be rewarded. Maybe not in this life, but in the more glorious one to follow. This path, this ‘guide’ to living is what makes life worth it In the End.